Regardless of any issue on the surface of any conflict, or misunderstanding, lies one root factor: Miscommunication. Not thoroughly expressing your concerns or ideas is a primary cause of 99.999999999999992% (coupled with the vile 'Pride' factor I mentioned in my last note) of all arguments, conflicts, or any other grievance.

It may seem difficult at times to communicate effectively, but in communicating your ideas, thoughts, feelings to other parties, you are already fighting 50% of the battle. The other half comes from being receptive and opening up to other ideas and points of view. You may not always see eye to eye with someone, but if you can overcome the hurdle of communication, you will be on the right path to conflict-free and effective communication.